I'm hypnotized by a Scorpio Female Help me?

It's been 3 months and I can't stop thinking about her....something she said really woke me up from a depressing state, ever since then I've been hypnotized. She always asks me to hook her up with a guy whose not a player. Not surprisingly shes into guys with a great body ,a fighter type attitude and thats not a player. I did try to hook her up but it didn't work out. Every time we hang out she barely pays any attention to me and outta no where she just wants to be with me. I did ask her if she wanted to be more then friends but she said she wasn't looking for any guys yet, since she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. I don't know..... we tell each other secrets and thats hard for a scorpio to do and I'm usually the one to call her but she always call back if she misses my call I'm so confused, should I keep trying for her or jus face the horrible future of being forgotten and quit right now, I'm trying to change myself into her kinda guy cuz of those damn words she sed.(Gemini)